At the Flemington Jewish Community Center (FJCC), we don’t just “do Judaism at you.” Instead, we encourage participation by congregants in our services. Adults and teenagers frequently play these roles in the service:
∙ Lifting or tying the Torah scroll
∙ Taking an aliyah at the Torah reading
∙ Leading the Kiddush blessings
∙ Leading part of the service
∙ Reading from the Torah
∙ Chanting the haftarah
∙ Giving a d'var Torah (a talk related to the weekly portion)
∙ Commenting in response to the d'var Torah or the rabbi’s sermon
Children are encouraged to lead selected parts of the Friday evening service and the closing parts of the Saturday morning service.
The FJCC is an egalitarian, Conservative congregation. We currently use the Sim Shalom siddur and Etz Hayim text of Torah readings. For help with the Hebrew parts of the service, transliterations are available, and all Hebrew texts come with line-by-line translations. No knowledge of Hebrew is required for you to participate in the discussion of the Torah portion. Our rabbi and ritual committee are eager to help you learn how to play whatever active role interests you.
Schedule of Services
Friday - 7:30 pm
Saturday - 9:15 am
Sunday - 9:00 am
Weekday Minyan - Upon Request
Torah portion for June 15, 2019
Torah portion for June 22, 2019
for May 18, 2019
This month, May, is mental health awareness month.
Mental health challenges and disorders have a long history in Judaism.
Accounts of depression, for example, go back to the Tanakh, the Jewish bible.
When Jacob loses his son, Joseph, allegedly to an animal attack, but actually to slave traders, he is never the same again. He never recovers from this trauma. When, toward the end of his life, Jacob meets Pharaoh, he says to Pharaoh: “Few and bitter have been the years of my life…” And yet, Jacob has lived 130 years, has 12 healthy kids, scores of grand-kids, and has survived a famine. He actually has much to be grateful for. But…, he cannot get over his deep grief.
After King Saul is told by Samuel that God no longer wants him to be king, we are told: “An evil spirit came upon him.” Saul’s courtiers express concern. They realize his mood has changed dramatically. “An evil spirit from God now terrifies you.” They tell him. They are worried. And…, they also offer a treatment. “’Let … us … seek out a skillful player on the harp; and it shall be, when the evil spirit comes upon you, he shall play the harp, and you shall be well...’ And, it came to pass, when the [evil] spirit was upon Saul, that David took the harp, and played…; so, Saul found relief, and it was well with him, and the evil spirit departed from him.” Hence, the entrance of David, the singer, later to be King David, into Jewish history.
On the one hand, I have spoken to mental health professionals who confirm that music therapy is very helpful in certain cases. Our ancestors did know something about mental illness. On the other hand, we also must realize that our ancestors viewed much of mental illness as the product of something like an evil spirit, and this … is not that helpful ...
Shabbat Oneg/Kiddush Sponsorship
There are many opportunities to sponsor an Oneg Shabbat or Kiddush in the coming weeks:
- Oneg - Friday - June 21
- Kiddush - Saturday - June 22
Tisha B’Av, the 9th day of the month of Av (August 10-11, 2019), is the saddest day on the Jewish calendar, on which we fast, deprive ourselves and pray. It is the culmination of the Three Weeks, a period of time during which we mark the destruction of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem. During this time, we do not
- eat or drink
- wear leather footwear
- bathe or wash ourselves (washing only until the knuckle when mandated by halachah)
- apply ointments or creams
- engage in marital relations or any form of intimacy
- sit on a normal-height chair until chatzot (the time when the sun has reached its apex)
- study Torah (except for the “sad” parts that deal with the destruction of the Temples, etc.)
- send gifts, or even greet one another (you may respond to greetings)
- engage in outings, trips or similar pleasurable activities
- wear fine, festive clothing